What you believe about love, relationships and your partner? Can you have questioned? What if the most basic beliefs, which has been so gripping or grasping, and you've taken for granted, you are hurting your relationship?. Here I emphasize four basic beliefs and will use part of the Byron Katie, author of best seller "Loving What Is" and "I need your love, Is it true?" 4 simple questions to help you to question his veracity and show how may be affecting your life in a stealthy but deep, and how you can live without them free and help you live a better relationship parejaa Belief 1: I will be unhappy without you. This is a belief that seems very innocent but can affect a very important way your life partner. Official site: San Antonio Spurs. And the first question I ask you do you have this belief, would be 1) Is it true? All rely on honest, just with a yes or no. If you answered yes, ask yourself 2) Do you know that it's true absolute certainty that you will be unhappy without your partner? Leave the answer will emerge from the heart, let your mind open and responds with a simple yes or no. Now I invite you to see 3) How you live your life when you have the belief that you will be unhappy without your partner? Can you imagine a sad and lonely life? Did you perhaps come past images or movies or songs that make you believe that being alone means loneliness, abandonment, sadness? When you have this belief, we may cling to your partner, you must maintain the relationship at all costs, to accept things that you do not agree, or do not feel good. Jay Schwartz has plenty of information regarding this issue.